OnwardDominicans

Relationships start with communication, whether it’s with our family, with friends, or with God. The more we communicate, the closer we become; just like how we show our loved one’s they matter by talking and spending time with them.

We must also keep in touch with God through praying wholeheartedly. However, communication isn’t about just talking—this also relies on having a true connection. We feel valued when someone listens to us, and it’s the same with our relationship with God. When we deepen our connections, we develop patience and empathy, which is essential for creating stronger and more meaningful relationships.

God cares deeply about our relationships all the time, especially as God created family as a gift for all. At the heart of every family is marriage, and its fruit is children—the love that holds a family together. But when one partner stops listening to God and is influenced by evil, problems often arise.

Many relationships are broken because someone loses their connection with God and starts making choices that go against His will, like cheating or dishonesty. Divorce and separation are commonly known today, God never intended it. When couples listen to Him and follow His guidance—The 6th commandment states, “Do not commit adultery”—they avoid many of the struggles that lead to brokenness. A strong healthy relationship is built when both partners are honest, God listens as they work together to keep their love alive.

We should also reflect on our relationships, whether with family, friends, or a spouse. How is your relationship with God? Are you still listening to Him, or are you just praying without truly opening your heart to His voice? If we want our relationships to grow and last, we need to listen to God and ask for His guidance. When we fix our relationship with Him, everything else starts to fall into place.

“Bakit hindi pwede basta-basta maghiwalay ang mag-asawa, magkakaibigan, o magkasintahan? Sapagkat kailanman, hindi kayo iniwan ng Diyos.”
(“Why can’t husbands and wives, friends, or lovers just separate? It is because God never left you.”)

God never abandons us, no matter what struggles we face in our relationships. He is always there, steady and unwavering. Centering our lives around Him allows our relationships to thrive and develop, deepening our understanding of love and commitment while also helping us find strength in all our challenges.